Nick Savoy on giving yourself the best chance to succeed

Hey, Savoy here. Thanks Cajun for suggesting this. I’ve been teaching guys how to get good with women for almost ten years now. I’ve seen guys who figure it out very quickly, I’ve seen guys who struggled a bit at first, and I’ve seen a few who were on the point of giving up before they finally broke through and got the success and confidence with women that they deserve.

(We don’t give up on anyone at Love Systems, or let anyone give up on themselves. Our policy is “no man left behind”).

The biggest difference is knowing yourself and knowing your goals. I don’t just mean with women; I mean in general. Love Systems isn’t about pretending to be someone else; it’s about being your best self. It’s about making the most of your natural advantages. Everyone has natural advantages – if you don’t think you do, all that means is you don’t know what yours are yet or how to use them to attract women. And it’s about developing that side of you that beautiful women would find fascinating – if they only knew it was there and you could show it to them.

You can see this at the very beginning of any Love Systems program, when we talk to each guy individually about who he is and what his goals are. I was observing a bootcamp recently when I overheard one of the participants tell an instructor: “I’m 32, I’m an insurance broker but my biggest hobby is sailing. Right now I want to be able to play the field and have dates and friends with benefits with much hotter women, but I also want to keep my eyes open for my perfect soulmate if she comes along, and I’m here to make sure I know what to do if she does.” He was standing behind me, so I couldn’t see him and I didn’t know anything more about him than that. But I knew he was going to be just fine. If I’d turned around and joined the conversation and asked him what exactly he was looking for in a soulmate, I’m sure he’d know and be able to tell me. He might be ugly, poor, have horrible habits and body language and so on, but it wouldn’t have mattered. When you know yourself and your (reasonable) goals, then it’s just a tactical problem of how to get there. That’s the easy part.

To paraphrase Stephen Covey – “If you don’t know where you’re trying to go … or what it will look like when you get there …. then your odds of success will be very small”. Or, in a Love Systems context – I’ll get you to the top of the mountain…that’s my job and my guarantee. But I need you to tell me what mountain you want to climb. I can’t pick the mountain for you.

If you have work to do in this area, then put down your copy of the Magic Bullets Handbook for a minute and grab a notepad and go for a walk. What do you want your life to be like in 1 year? In 5 years? In 10 years? How does your dating and sex life fit into that? Will you need to improve your dating and pickup skills? In what areas? How do you plan to take care of that? Make a plan – and stick to it. Just asking yourself those questions – and answering them – will set you way ahead of the competition.

Good luck!

-Nick Savoy

I am proud to introduce the official debut of my first product: Beyond Words: The art of body language and physical escalation. Vercetti, Mr. M, and myself worked for over a year on this product and we’re happy to finally release it. It is going to be the quintessential body language home study course and includes guest presentations from Keychain and 5.0 who are some of the best instructors in the world for body language. In fact, I purposely made sure that if I was going to release a product on body language, something I’ve studied for years, I wanted to make sure that I had the best guys in the world to help me. This is that product.

Here are some video sneak peaks from the seminar:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-UCisrvgjlU&feature=channel

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsPKuZybBLY&feature=channel

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ufPDKRKLEqM&feature=channel

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-lT5lsNXgvk&feature=channel

There are only 500 copies available, thats the limit we set it to. This is THE best product for learning seduction on the market right now, I guarantee it. In fact I would say that nothing even comes close to giving even 10% of the advice we give in this DVD. We teach you how to move, how to stand, how to look, how to speak, how to touch, and even how to do nothing in a way that can attract women. We’re also including a number of bonuses for those of you who order today from the link I provide at the end of this post. You’ll get 5.0 on kino and physical escalation, Keychain on rapid physical escalation and day game, Vercetti on beliefs and inner game, as well as me giving a presentation on online dating. These are all bonuses. There’s also a 45min master class session with Vercetti and I answering questions from the Beyond Word’ attendees about very specific topics, things you would never find online or on a product. This is only for those who purchase in the next few days.

You can order the dvd here:

BEYOND WORDS

You can add me by going to facebook.com/cajunthelegend.

I actually log in to facebook quite often. So if you’ve ever wanted to talk to me, or ask me a question, this would probably be the easiest way. I also just uploaded a bunch of videos

So, this is very last minute but there is a conference call this Wednesday night, June 2nd at 9pm EST and 6 PST. It’s Savoy and I taking questions about body language. I have a body language dvd set coming out soon and this is part of the promotion so it’s absolutely free and should be a hilarious time. So POP OPEN A FUCKIN BEER, RIP OPEN A BAG OF THE BLOODIEST BEEF JERKY, IT’S TIME TO GET RIPPED TO THE TITTIES AND TALK ABOUT HOW TO MOVE OUR BODIES!!!!

You can sign up here:

http://www.lovesystems.com/misc/body-language-conference-call

I went back on the show to hang out with Mark and answer some questions on Subtext, Body Language, and Online Dating.

Watch it here

Check it:  here the other parts are linked in the video.

Is dating science becoming more tolerated in the media? Discuss.

First one was with Attraction Blogs.com and just went up a couple days ago. It’s a great interview because they actually asked some really interesting questions, and tried to stay away from generic stuff that everyone asks me. Check it out here: Interview with Cajun from Love Systems.

The second interview was actually a phone interview that was later written into a piece for TSB magazine, It’s in three parts, but I think they should all be up by now. It’s probably my favourite article ever written about me for this stuff as it really tries to capture a bit more of my personal character in it, which isn’t always easy to do. It also has an awesome title. You can read it here: Spice up your life with Cajun: Part I of the TSB spotlight of the Love Systems badass

Let me know what you think!

Yoooo!

My good friends and fellow LS instructors Braddock & Mr. M have finally released their long awaited phone and text game book, it’s called “The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game” and believe me when I say: It’s a monster.

This is literally the be-all and end-all of phone and text game advice, not only are Braddock and Mr. M the best guys at phone and text game that I know (and I know some GOOD fucking guys) but they’ve also been writing this for TWO FUCKING YEARS. They’re also perfectionists and you can bet that they took those two years to make sure absolutely everything is covered in the book. If you have a phone, and you use it to call and text women, then you need this book. It will pay for itself in sex, believe me. Here’s a freebie tip from the book for ya:

Phone and Text Game Routine – Fortifying the Beaches

In the book The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game you can read a new trick to make a phone number more solid. What that mean is that the girl is more likely to respond to your first call or text message. The technique is called Fortifying The Beaches and it will be described in this article.

The first thing you have to do is get her phone number.  So a few minutes after you get her phone number, you continue the conversation.

A few minutes later you pretend you received a text message but you are actually going to send her a text message. The first text will be something playful and flirty. It can be something like:

“Hey this cute girl is talking to me, but I don’t know how to flirt with her.  Help?”

If you can use any references to your conversation, that would be even better. This is also called callback humor which is more explored in the book.

In most cases the girl will check her phone and she will see you texted. Now you have to pretend like you know nothing about it and you just keep the conversation going. She will usually text you back something funny and you can do this flirting back and forth while you both pretend nothing is happening.

What is so great about this is that you two already have a bunch of text messages going back and forth even before you two go separate ways. So the next day when you text her, you don’t complete start cold because you two already communicated over text.

This technique will make a lot of your phone numbers solid and having girls respond to your initial text message the next day.

For more tips and tricks likes these, check out The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game

1. This is my personal list and is therefore correct no matter what you think.

2. Ranking is not based purely on looks. There are other factors which will be explained for each choice.

3. This list is based on female rockers in their prime, not necessarily present day versions of them, but I’ll probably get into that too.

4. I don’t care how hot they are, if their music sucks shit then so do they.

Alright, good. So who made the number five spot?

#5

Emmylou Harris

Now, most people would argue that Emmylou Harris isn’t rock at all, and they’re kind of right; Emmylou did mostly folk and country songs. But she also played with groups like The Band and Neil Young, who very much ARE rock, and are also two of my all-time favourite in the genre. This allows her to be eligible through association, but also because she’s fucking hot. Actually, young Emmylou Harris wasn’t really that amazingly hot, I mean she definitely had the girl next door thing going on, and I would definitely make a move on a girl that looked as hot as she did, but compared to the others on this list, she’s pretty plain.

The reason she’s on this list is because she has one quality that is ideally suited for it; she’s aged amazingly. In fact she may be the hottest old lady I’ve ever seen next toJessica Lange about 10 years ago. Look at this shit:

Keep in mind she’s about 63, even up close in HD she looks good. She’s actually an extremely talented performer as well, listen to her perform Evangeline, a song coincidentally about my people; the Acadians, with The Band. Sexy voice!

Her prime year? I actually think she got hotter as she got older, so whenever this picture was taken:

Would I do her now? Most definitely. It’s not really even for the glory on this one either, I mean there would be a lot of glory involved, but I’d probably enjoy this one just for the mad gilf-dom.

#4

Stevie Nicks

The front woman of one of my favourite bands of all time; Fleetwood Mac. Fleetwood Mac is kind of a guilty pleasure because its a band that everybody seems to like and they tend to get a tremendous amount of recognition and praise, a lot more than I think they deserve considering they really only had a couple of good albums while they were together (Although rumours is a fucking masterpiece). But this list isn’t about ranking bands for their contribution, it’s about HOT WOMEN! And Stevie really had that shit going for her.

Unfortunately, when the mac broke up and she went solo in the 80?s she gained some weight and decided to embrace the 80?s style of overdoing everything along with incorporating some weird black magic wicca aspect into her image that just made her come across as creepy.

With Stevie I’d say her youngest years are her best, early to mid 70?s being her hottest years, actually I’d say she was more attractive in her Buckingham Nicks days even though nobody really knows her from that period. She seemed to get more and more fucked as the years went on, and it’s evident in her style, demeanor and music.

Would I still do her now?

She’s aged pretty decently compared to some of the other women on this list, and has that “my friend’s mom” kind of look to her. Although she still has that cold, crazy bitch look on her face all the time, which scares me. She seems like someone who might kill you in your sleep, or use you as some sacrifice in a spell for an evil entity or something. It would be cool to fuck a sorceress though, so yeah, if I had a few drinks I would probably go for it.

#3

Joan Jett

Oh yeah, the reigning queen of balls to the wall female rockers. Joan Jett has no competition when it comes to being a physical manifestation of every male (and female!) hard rock fan’s wet dream. Thekind of woman that would pull up in a trans-am, scowl at you as she emerges from the car in black leather, take a long drag of her cigarette, grab the back of your head, kiss you violently, exhale her drag, then punch you in the face. Fuck I just got a boner…

Jett gets bonus points for NEVER selling out, and being true to herself her entire career. Joan Jett is Joan Jett, she isn’t a constructed image, or a gimmick to sell records, she’s herself, and that makes her even hotter.

Her prime year would probably be when she left the Runaways and went solo, so around 1979. Unfortunately she was also affected by the 80?s and managed to overdue things a bit later on, even for her.

Would I still do her now?

Well, I almost did a couple years ago. If I had another chance though…uhh she would probably be my last pick out of all the women on this list in their current forms, but that’s only because I’m not really into women that are built like a brick fuckin shit-house.

But yeah if I had the chance again, I’d probably do it.

#2

Debbie Harry

Oh man! Debbie Harry, the lead singer of the influential 70?s pop band “Blondie”, is one of the most iconically beautiful women of the past few decades. If you look at the hipster movement today, or any of those American Apparel ads plastered on bus stops and subways that seem to have been inspired by it, it’s easy to see the influence she’s had on several generations of women and popular culture. Blondie transcended a number of different genres going from candy coated pop to funk infused reggae and eventually even rap, yes you read that correctly, and I’ve yet to see a white girl to this day attempt that professionally. Blondie inspired and really pushed forward the idea that a leading woman in a band could do more than simply look pretty; although Debbie was great at that too.

Why she’s on my list: Her contribution to music and popular culture alone would be enough to warrant it, but did I mention she’s FUCKING HOT. Look at this!

She also has that feminine confidence that really translates well through her pictures and her music, something I personally find incredibly attractive. She’s pretty down to earth in interviews too, and seems like someone you could just go have a drink with. If were talking prime years here I’d say 1978; that’s when Blondie first started getting a lot of mainstream success and when she was probably her hottest.

Would I still do her now?

Oh man, she’s pretty old. Still looks amazing for her age mind you, but she’s got this Anne Murray thing going on now with her look that, frankly, disgusts me to the point of inverting my penis. Having said that, yeah I’d still probably go for it given the opportunity…FOR THE GLORY!

UPDATE: Apparently she just got a bunch of surgery done and looks pretty hot.

#1

Ann & Nancy Wilson

Fuck yeah! I picked 2! They’re sisters and they’re both in the same band, so I can only give them one spot —- BON(er)US!!

Ann & Nancy Wilson are of course, the two defining members of the band Heart, and there was a time when they were the two hottest women on the planet, no joke. Most people associate Heart with their 80?s image and picture these two extremely 80?s corporate looking jokes of hotness. It’s almost as if they were making fun of themselves because in the 70?s when they were doing their own thing they were fucking AMAZINGLY hot.

Ann doesn’t really photograph as well as Nancy, but watch her in motion in this video:

Now not only were Ann & Nancy both ridiculously hot in the 70?s, but they could also fucking ROCK. I’m actually more enamoured with Ann because she has this incredibly attractive way of expressing herself when she sings, it’s like a confidence thing, like she doesn’t care if she makes ugly face expressions because she’s just singing as hard as she can. Crazy hot! She’s also basically the female equivalent of Robert Plant, who most would agree is the most impressive rock singer of all time. I’ve heard Heart cover Zeppelin, and it rocks, Ann can almost out-Plant Plant. Not that Heart didn’t have a number of their own rockin songs, check this one out, and I dare you to not fall in love with Ann by the end:

Prime year: I’d say 1976, that’s the year the two videos above were from. Ann doesn’t have too many years when she was crazy hot, she teetered back and forth with her weight and her looks, so her prime years are more like prime months of certain years. It gets really complicated in the 80?s, then in the 90?s she ballooned and it just gets ugly.

Would I do them now?

Uhhh, well Nancy is married to Cameron Crowe, who made Almost Famous, one of my favourite films so I can’t really have her out of respect. But Ann…yeah Ann is still pretty big, but I think she got her stomach snipped or something so maybe she’s lost a bunch of weight and is hot again. It’s always a gamble with Ann…but yes I would go for it, she’s too much of a legend not to.

Who did I miss?

YOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooooooo!

Been a while since I posted, summers are always super busy for me and I tend to spread myself out thin, sorry about that guys. I am very excited right now though, as I get to announce that I WILL BE GOING TO THE PLAYBOY MANSION ON AUG 15-16th for an advanced bootcamp with Savoy!

Why is this so special? Oh let me count the ways…

1. It’s the fucking PLAYBOY MANSION: Sure it’s not the 70?s anymore but this is still one of the most prestigious and ballin-est places to party. There’s going to be loads of playmates, models and gorgeous women to talk to who are all there for the same reason: TO PARTY AT THE PLAYBOY MANSION! Stating that women would simply be more open to sex here would be an understatement; they’ re EXPECTING it!

2. You got the most qualified seducers in the world there to help you: Savoy has dated multiple playmates i’m sure, the guy seems to be with a new model every time I see him, he’s also one of the best sexual escalators I’ve ever seen in action. I’ve dated a playboy model and seduced loads of other high profile women including (Canadian) top models and rock stars. We know what were doing and we’re gonna be there for a whole weekend showing you exactly how it’s done.

3. Advanced Seminar portion: Savoy is leading the seminar which is a rare treat. He doesn’t do it very often since he’s so busy but he’s one of the best teachers out there, maybe the best I’ve ever seen. Believe me when I say you’re going to learn some advanced stuff you wouldn’t get anywhere else. I’ll be teaching my “super secret routine” which in itself will let you ACE every date you go on and double the amount of women in you’re life! If you thought keys to the vip was impressive, wait until you see what I’ve learned in the 2 years since that was filmed. Keys will be a mickey mouse cartoon compared to the xxx shit you’re going to see us pull at the mansion.

4. Legendary Status: How would you like to brag to your buds (or your future children) that you got to party at the playboy mansion with some of the top seducers in the world? The mansion has been doing fewer and fewer parties over the years and there’s talk that they may stop altogether in the future. This may be one of your last chances to have this opportunity! Think of your children!

Go to www.lovesystems.com to sign up if you’re interested. Seats won’t last long, believe me.